i love feeling loved~
i like how cis people act like it would be the worst thing in the world not to assume people’s genders i mean we don’t assume people’s names what if you just met someone and you were like “hey emily” and they were like “thats not my name its megan” and you were like “oh well how was i supposed to know. you look like an emily to me. i guess i can try to call you megan but its gonna be hard because i just see you as such an emily”
when i started my new job people kept calling me rachel (and once isabel?) for no apparent reason, they just all collectively thought i was a rachel i guess. they feel bad about it but i just thought it was hilarious.